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Pretty much it's going to happen. Males seem to have a hard time of this in particular. It is worse in the beginning, with the younger (less jaded?) being most effected. Although it's kind of cute to watch a youngish girl/woman sneaking stares. This is what I find one of the disadvantages of a nudist club. I guess that in order to be somewhat accepted (not shut down by the local church or something), the nudist clubs I have been to had strict rules about - everybody HAS to be naked - if you get aroused, take a hike or jump in the pool or such Seems to me that they are just as uptight about the whole nudity thing as anyone else... but maybe I've been to the wrong clubs? I don't think you've been to the wrong clubs. Guessing you've been to US clubs, which seem to go excessively overboard on trying to "fit" into local social mores. Not that I suppose you can blame them much, as in many places in the US they are on the fringe of acceptable society. [And if in a primarily Baptist/Evangelical area are they even in the acceptable range? Strike that, don't really wish to jump into a religious debate!] Seeing some photos of such nudist (or naturalist) where they are playing volley ball, and other activities... looks a bit strange to have the boys flopping around. Wonder if they sell ‘clear' jock straps? I won't play volley ball without support, as that's just gotta hurt! Which makes you wonder if they sell ‘clear' bras? Now I would see a nude party as being a bit more easy to do... Also... face it... some people shouldn't be nude. Again, that is my hangup. My mind does not work that way. Perhaps it should... After a while, you get used to it. As I noticed before, you are more or less forced to be non-sexual. Having nude people of all body types helps (there is always someone you can look at that helps you cool down :-) ). Yeah, eventually, the ‘novelty' of seeing whatever sparks your fire naked everyday wears off and supposedly sexual arousal fades to the background. I would suggest not fading out of the group conversation and wandering off into a daydream as it can be embarrassing. Shrugging your shoulders and grinning sheepishly at that point doesn't seem to be the acceptable social response either. Staring directly into her eyes and saying, "You're gorgeous" might work better. Sometimes life is just hard. I would suggest to at least try it once or twice. It is an interesting experience. It helped me a little bit getting used to the notion that the human body is a natural thing. I mean, before going to a nudist club I hardly ever experienced nudity other than in a sexually charged context. But after trying it myself, I decided not to become a member, at least not of any of the ones I tried. I haven't found any that I wish to join either. I've done research on a few, and I even inquired about buying a home at one, and I'm sure they are nice people, but in general their overzealous anti-sex attitude just turns me off. (And shouldn't a prudish nudist be a contradiction in terms?) |